Long-Distance Relationships

Love makes the world go round, but doesn’t conquer all. This holds true to couples who are in a long-distance relationship. Just like any other love, being in love with someone who is far away from you forever is possible. But it doesn’t mean though, that one will be able to survive having a relationship with someone who’s far away and make it last.

Many people I know personally broke up with their partners who had gone abroad because of their failed relationships. And one of the major reasons is the other one found someone new in his/her respective location.

So you can’t blame some couples who break up before the other leave. Despite the presence of love, trust in the relationship is slowly losing because of lack of physical presence, which is important in building trust. Not even instant messaging, e-mailing, and long-distance calls will solve this problem.

In fairness, some couples survive. But these are cases of people whose partner are just staying away for a given period of time.

Some makes expensive duties like scheduling a constant visit to the partner’s place. Still, it will not guarantee trust.

So if your partner decides to stay in a faraway place for good, your relationship should not be taken for granted. Be realistic on the advantages and disadvantages of staying in your relationship then decide whether you’re going to pursue it or not. However, be realistic on the outcome. For security, you may decide to follow and stay with your partner where he/she will transfer.

Trust is important in every relationship. And without physical presence, trust in a relationship has a slim chance to work out. And my stand is…long-distance relationship is most likely to fail…

Happy life

All my life I have dreamed;
All my life I have wished;
All my life I have hoped;
All my life I have prayed.

My life is so thirsty of true love.
It craves for real feeling,
That would accept everything.
Yet, if found, got lost for nothing.

Come my love; My true love.
Be with me and find me~ you white dove.
I’ve waited long and tired,
How can I search you my beloved?

Heavens opened and granted my prayer.
I am overwhelmed yet, full of fear;
Pain! Please get away from here!
I cannot stand, I cannot bear.

This tear is overflowing,
But letting you go is just the beginning!
I knew that the other picture is a happy ending
For you’re my last and forever love…

Forbidden Love

What I feel for you, couldn’t hold it inside, had forgotten the world for a while.

My nights goes sleepless aching for you, I know your nights aren’t different too.

Every morning rays, knows the truth, we love each other deeply and true.

Every pain of mine aches for your arms, every smile that lights want to be with you.

You give me hopes when I need it the most; you make me, meet me whenever I am lost.

You are the whole in soul I need for my life, but every setting ray in the sky, knows the price.

We are for each other, but can’t be together, but I love you still deeply, problems whatsoever.

My love for you I think I can end, except maybe when I am dead and sent.

A Silent Love

From the very Beginning, the girl’s family objected strongly on her dating this guy. Saying that it has got to do with family background & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him.

Due to family’s pressure, the couple quarrel very often. Though the girl love the guy deeply, but she always ask him: “How deep is your love for me?”

As the guy is not good with his words, this often causes the girl to be very upset. With that & the family’s pressure, the girl often vent her anger on him. As for him, he only endures it in silence.

After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies in overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: “I’m not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I’ll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?”

The girl agreed, & with the guy’s determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he leave, they got engaged.

The girl went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it’s hard, but both never thought of giving up.

One day, while the girl was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voice……

The doctors say that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents’ comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down.

During the stay in hospital, besides silence cry,it’s still just silence cry that companied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart every time it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know. & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.

With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply, and countless of phone calls,.. all the girl could do, besides crying, is still crying….

The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy.

With a new environment, the girl learns sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told her that he’s back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn’t any more news of him.

A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy’s wedding. The girl was shattered. When she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead.

When she was about to ask her friend what’s going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her. He used sign language telling her “I’ve spent a year’s time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I’ve not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You. With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled.

Having the Wrong person when the time is Right

Loving the right person at the wrong time, Having the wrong person when the time is right, 

And finding out you love someone right after that person walks out of your life…

And sometimes, you think you are already over a person,

But when you see them smile at you, you will suddenly realize that you are just pretending

To be over then just to ease the pain of knowing that, they will never be yours again.

For some, they think that letting go is one way of expressing how much they love that person…

In my opinion, some are afraid to see the one they love being held by someone else…

Most relationships tend to fail not because of the absence of love. Love is always present…

It is just that one is being loved too much and the other is being loved too little…

As we, all know that the heart is the center of the body but it beats on the left.

Maybe that is the reason why the heart is not always right… Most often, we fall in love with the person we think we love.

But only to discover that for them, we are just for passing time.

While the one who truly loves us remains either a friend or a stranger…

So here is a piece of advice; Let go when you are hurting too much.

Give up when love is not enough. And move on when things are not like before…

For sure, there is someone out there who will love you even more.

It is never wrong to love

LOVE is a feeling so it can never be wrong to love someone. Stop beating yourself up about it. Sometimes having a relationship with someone is not possible at this moment. Either one of you isn’t ready or there is someone else coming along in your near future you will love even more.

So many of us get stuck and punish ourselves for loving the “wrong person”. What sets you free from the anxiety, depression rejection and wondering why is allowing yourself to accept the fact that for some reason you loved this person and it is OK! Love looks and feels so much better than anger and frustration. Forgiving and loving will help you get through the disappointments and propel you to move on faster.

People are attracted to a person’s energy and when your energy is love, anything can happen. I realized not everything is meant to be a full blown relationship. I did learn from all of them and that is how I made progress. We need to keep learning and progressing to be happy.

Not everyone has the tools to “choose love”. Life is about what you focus on so today; start to focus on what you love about someone not on what they aren’t giving you. You will see big changes in your life when you do. Instead of criticizing your son/daughter today, remind them what it is you love about them. Doing this inspires them to be confident about whom they are and you will feel like a new person!

Missed you so!

My days were different before… I never knew the meaning of LOVE until I met you…

But I don’t know how I can fall in love with you.

All those sweet Memories can never be buried, though we only shared a little bit of time.

I can’t forget the first Hug which you gave me and as well as I still remember your lips kissing me.

I don’t know what had happened, and questions still left unanswered, you disappear without telling me where

Are you going and wondering are those kisses can happen again?

You left me hanging and keep thinking to myself what is missing. As I think deeply and realize that maybe we are not meant to be. But baby I can’t stop thinking of you because you are the person that makes me feel special.

Misses you everyday!

 

 

oaP 🙂